My husband and I decided to start trying next summer for kids (I’m almost 28, he is 32). Yet, I think I want to go off my birth control now (ortho-tricyclene lo), even though I’m not sure we’re ready. I have always been hesitant about kids, but I think my biological clock keeps telling me stuff.

Plus my mom had trouble conceiving. She was in the midst of adoption and was doing fertility drugs before my older sister came along.

And don’t think I’m mental, but my grandma saw a psychic who said I’d have trouble conceiving.

So I’m wondering, what do I need to do beforehand. Should I start taking pre-natal vitamins? I didn’t mention that I suffer from depression and take 300 mg of Effexor (it went up in the last 2 months, I previously tried to quit b/c I didn’t want to be on it when pregnant, but I have no choice in order to not want to die) and about 10-20 mg of trazidone at night for sleep. I really don’t think I can go off these medications for my own sake.

but is prenatal vitamins okay to take w/ these? Am I messing up my child? I’ve talked extensively w/ my psychiatrist and though I haven’t seen an ob-gyn about this, I’ll definitely use a high-risk one when the time comes. In the mean time, since I’m in no hurry, do I just continue as usual? (my usual includes exercising heavily, looking for a new job, and applying for grad school to start in a year. yes, probably when preggers, but I just got done w/ another degree and need time off). Thanks for the advice.

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